Time transcripts of The Outside Course Audio File [00:00:00.00] Hello, my name is Ellen and I belong to an online community called The Outside Course. [00:00:07.01] The forum was originated by a group of people who were involved in the horse community [00:00:12.75] who wanted a place to chat about their lives. [00:00:15.00] There are lots of places to talk about horses online, [00:00:18.15] but these people wanted to talk about their lives outside of horses. [00:00:24.25] And the forum where they had originally met didn't allow for non-horse-related discussion. [00:00:30.00] Of that original group, I believe there are exactly none left on The Outside Course. [00:00:35.00] Everyone, including the folks who started the forum and our moderators [00:00:37.50] has wandered off, and those of us who make The Outside Course what it is now [00:00:45.00] are a pretty loyal group who all meandered in from someplace else [00:00:50.00] and we settled down to have a nice cup of coffee and a chat. We stayed. [00:00:55.00] I joined the forum when it began and I was a very occasional posting member [00:01:00.00] for quite awhile. I had a very busy and active horse life [00:01:05.00] in the real world, and I was an active busy member of a large horse forum. [00:01:10.00] But almost four years ago now, we left the United States. [00:01:14.00] I left with my family, and we left my horses, and my active horse life was all left behind. [00:01:23.50] If you've ever been an expat, you'll understand why The Outside Course [00:01:26.01] suddenly became a lot more important to me. When you leave your home country behind, [00:01:30.81] you become a foreigner, and in our case we moved to China [00:01:35.01] where we were instantly recognizable as foreigners and we lived in a place where [00:01:39.71] very few people spoke English. And the majority of the other expats in the area [00:01:44.01] were all Europeans and Australians. And of course I made lots of friends [00:01:47.26] and I felt very at home in my adopted community, but ... there's always something missing [00:01:54.23] when you're a foreigner. Always. The Outside Course became a place where I could [00:02:00.01] sit down and read about my home. I can read about people who [00:02:05.01] can have horses and people who can have dogs and cats and other pets and ... [00:02:08.61] people who were having great days and people who were having bad days, [00:02:11.26] and people who were getting engaged and people who are getting married and divorced [00:02:15.63] and having babies and all sorts of other everyday seminal events. [00:02:22.02] The folks in the community of The Outside Course [00:02:25.00] live their lives and speak a language that I completely understand and that I can relate to. [00:02:31.41] We very sadly left China behind after three fantastic years, [00:02:35.31] and now we live in the Czech Republic. And I, I do love it, I love it [00:02:40.01] I have an amazing life with very little in the way of real complaints, but [00:02:45.01] I'm still a foreigner. [00:02:48.01] Dobrý den! Jmenuji se Ellena. Jsem cizinka. Mluvim česky moc malo. [ Good day! My name is Ellen. I speak Czech very little. ] [00:02:55.01] Mluviš pomalu, prosim! [ Please speak slowly! ]. See I'm a foreigner! [00:02:58.51] I look like everybody else in the Czech Republic so I blend in and I have to tell people I'm a foreigner, [00:03:05.01] Jsem cizinka. [ I'm a foreigner ]...but I, I'm foreign. [00:03:10.01] And as happy as I am with my life, [00:03:11.51] and I promise I wouldn't trade it for all the alfalfa in Tennessee,