Time transcripts of baleighnarr [00:00:00:01] [ Interviewer: ] Okay. So, can you state your name [00:00:03:07] and the date? [ Breaux: ] Baleigh Breaux, and it [00:00:05:27] is May 5th. [ Interviewer: ] So, what words do you [00:00:10:27] use to describe your identity in terms of gender? [00:00:14:27] [ Breaux: ] In terms of gender, I identify as a female. [00:00:18:10] [ Interviewer: ] Okay, cool. What words do you [00:00:21:13] use to describe your identity in terms of your [00:00:23:25] sexuality? [ Breaux: ] And in terms of sexuality, [00:00:27:02] definitely a lesbian. [ laughs ] [Interviewer:] So [00:00:30:28] how did you come to use those specific words? [00:00:34:16] [ Breaux: ] Um... I guess I like... I always knew I [00:00:39:23] was gay. I've always just liked women... so I know [00:00:45:12] a lot of people don't like to label themselves, [00:00:47:01] but, I mean, I am so strict with the term "lesbian" [00:00:50:13] just because I know that I could never date a [00:00:52:10] man. So, it's always been strict with me. In terms [00:00:55:14] of gender, I've always felt like a girl, so I guess [00:01:00:16] that's why. [ Interviewer: ] So, with the word "lesbian," [00:01:04:13] there's a sort of a culture behind it, and do you [00:01:09:10] identify with that culture, too? [ Breaux: ] Yeah, [00:01:12:02] definitely. I definitely do some things that are, [00:01:16:18] you know, "stereotypical of a lesbian." And usually [00:01:22:02] most people aren't surprised when I tell them that [00:01:23:10] I'm a lesbian, so... Yeah. I think I definitely identify [00:01:26:28] with the cultural aspect of it. [ Interviewer: ] So what [00:01:29:24] experiences have you had with describing your [00:01:32:09] identity to other people who identify as LGBTQ? [00:01:36:24] [ Breaux: ] Um... It's usually a lot easier. They [00:01:40:22] usually understand. I don't really have to say, [00:01:43:11] like, "I'm a lesbian!" It's usually like "Yeah, I like [00:01:45:18] women!" And then they're like, "Me too!" It's a [00:01:49:05] lot easier, and you don't get that kind of awkward [00:01:51:14] moment that you sometimes get when you explain [00:01:54:02] it to heterosexuals. So, um... it's just been easier, [00:01:58:19] and then we usually laugh about it and talk about [00:02:01:08] gay things. So... [ laughs ] [Interviewer:] So, do [00:02:05:09] you have a story about a time when you used [00:02:07:10] LGBTQ-specific language with LGBTQ people, [00:02:13:20] or with straight people, or a mixed group? [00:02:15:29] [ Breaux: ] Um, yeah. Last night, actually, I was [00:02:19:03] with one of my friends, and she's a lesbian. [00:02:21:19] And we were walking down High Street, and [00:02:24:20] we saw someone, like, walking down past us, [00:02:27:22] and we were also with our straight friends. And [00:02:30:05] he was clearly gay. And I think my friend actually [00:02:33:00] knew him. And I was like, "Hey! He's family!" [00:02:35:12] And she was like, "Yeah, he's family!" Our straight [00:02:38:27] friends were like, "He's 'family?' What does that [00:02:40:22] mean?" So, we kind of had to explain he's a [00:02:43:10] member of the gay community, you know. So he's family.